I wanted to talk about something today that is so important and can and will leave your child affected for the rest of there lives. Children are like sponges they soak up everything that is around them. They like to mimic what they see people doing. Believe it or not when us parents, there most treasured hero's, get involved in an argument or bickering , or a fight (whatever you want to call it) in front of your child /children it does have an affect on them. They are soaking and gathering all that behavior and storing it in there little minds for later use. Be aware of your surrounding because when in the heat of the moment you don't realize the kids are there watching and listening to everything.
My best advice, as hard as it can be when your filled with emotions just leave the room and talk in private, or distract your child by watching TV or a quick project. Make sure to keep your voices as normal as possible, children can feel mood shifts. Just keep in mind that these little children our are first priority and there health and well being are in or hands.
*As someone who is married and well aware of those times when husband and wife are just not seeing eye to eye remember those fights are not the problem of your child/children and there for should not be involved or exposed to them.
* Any questions, comments, advice, or experience's please post! Thanks Moms
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